Ya know what I hate? People who don't think. The ones who can't put others above themselves.. the ones whose own best interest is the only thing they care about.
I'm just saying. For my friends 18th birthday, I bought her favorite candy, made her favorite food, and bought her the cutest pajamas. Card too. When it comes to the people I care about, I try to show them I care. I show it any way that I can. If I have a friend that's not feeling so great, I do anything I can to cheer them up. I make cookies for people. I share my brownies.
Is it so horrible to expect a little something in return?
We all have relationships. We have them with family, friends, and some of us with significant others. Have you ever stopped to look at how healthy each of those relationships are?
I have plenty of one-sided relationships. I have a best friend that won't call me, and only sends a text my way about once a month. I try to send her one as often as I can, but gave up on the phone calls. I also have someone in my life that can't consider my feelings at all. It's all about that person. You know how much it hurts to care so much about someone who only cares about themself?
So, I'm not sure where I was going with this. I just feel so fed up with people that can't take my feelings into consideration when they're doing something. "You know what? I think Kellie deserves to be told she's beautiful." or.. "Wow, I miss Kellie. I should give her a call."
But that doesn't happen. Not even from the people I care about most.
I don't want pity, I want to understand. Should I just get these people out of my life? Find ones that think I'm worth a text, or a phone call.. even a compliment? Because I'm at a loss. I don't know what to do anymore.